Around and around and around offense goes and grows in larger and larger cycles.  We know that offense is annoyance or resentment brought about by a perceived or real insult, but are we aware that offense can drive a cycle in our lives that effects how we see ourselves, how we behave, and...

Buried offense and emotions do not die; they just rot and stink.  It is much healthier to deal with our emotions effectively and teach our children to do the same. The first  important indication of offense buried deeply is repeated patterns of harmful situations. Examples would be...

We tend to think that recognizing offense in ourselves is easy and straightforward. When we get upset at someone, we are offended. First, the easiest way to recognize offense is if you are still mad, hurt, or emotionally charged in some way when you encounter the offending people later. This is...

Jesus often warns us against things that will cause us harm, like OFFENSE.  Just like a good parent, He tries to guide us toward things that are good for us and will have good results.  For instance, the Ten Commandments were all to help the Israelites stay out of trouble and do what...

Many people grow up without a voice.  What do I mean by that?  They believe "My voice doesn't matter."  "No one listens to me anyway."  Therefore, they do not speak out because their opinion has not been valued.  This often comes from being shut down in childhood. ...

As I sit this morning with my coffee and take a look back, I see a journey of learning by hard knocks, trying and failing, learning from mistakes and refining the process.  I have also learned by helping others and watching their journeys. I see how God has ordered my steps and how he has...